Is your partner a good match for you?

I was recently listening to one of my favorite motivational speakers Anthony Robbins and his wife Sage on their website http://www.ultimaterelationshipblog.com and the topic was three questions to ask yourself to find out if you and your partner are a good match...

He says that just like a employer interviewing an employee for a job ask yourself some questions like...

1.) CAN they do this job? CAN this person be my partner?

but more so...

2.)WILL this person be my partner?.... LONG TERM?...

-Are your goals aligned? Do you share the same life goals?

-Nature of the person- same beliefs, same values, same interests?

3.) Are you the right team fit? What are your 2 top needs??? Are they aligned with your partner?

- Are your core values in tune?

- Do you share a similar driving force?

Your Goals, Belief Systems and Values Change over time but your Needs Structure Rarely changes...

 and it makes me truly reflect do we sometimes get involved with people based on many other factors Looks, Finance, that butterfly feeling in our gut when we see them???.....and then wonder why it doesn't work out?

Things that make you go hmmmm....